WHY is the Happiness of Women Declining?

BalanceThe subject of women’s happiness has been thrust into the spotlight recently, following the publication of The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness, a study that shows women are less happy than 40 years ago despite having far more opportunities. A subsequent article by Marcus Buckingham on The Huffington Post sparked debate about the declining happiness of women.

Reactions to the findings are mixed. Bonnie Fuller, President of HollywoodLife.com, responded to Buckingham in an opinion-based article, stating, “Marcus Buckingham, whether it’s our sexual, work, love or beauty lives, women have far more control over these than they did 40 or more years ago. And that means that women are happier, whether they consciously realize it or not!”

Last week, She Takes On The World contributor, Molly Castelazo, looked at declining happiness from a personal angle as a wife, mother, and business owner. In her post she says, “It was probably meant to be an era of women’s liberation – as women felt free to be a homemaker, a nurse, a teacher, or a lawyer, doctor, scientist, CEO, entrepreneur. Yet it has become an era of anxiety as women have felt compelled to devote themselves fully to homemaking and their careers.” Molly raises a good point about the overwhelming amount of pressure women place on themselves.

I was initially skeptical of the study’s findings. I had to read it in full to believe the results. I just couldn’t fathom that women could be less happy than 40 years ago. I immediately thought of the AMC show, Mad Men, which is set in the 1960s, a time when only 37.7% of women participated in the workforce. For those of you who may not have seen the show, it centers in on a fictional New York advertising agency, Sterling Cooper, the epitomy of an “old boy’s club.”

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From watching the show I would conclude that women are much happier now than they were at that time. In fact, when I watch the show I often find myself thinking “These poor women! If only they knew that change is coming.” I am very sympathetic towards Peggy Olson, one of the characters. She is fiercely determined and works hard to get promoted from a secretary to a copywriter at the surprise of many.

In today’s world, a woman with Peggy’s ambition could be a top executive, CEO, or successful entrepreneur. If Peggy Olson could glimpse 40 years into the future, I’m sure she would expect women to be much happier because of the progress that has been made and opportunities that women of the 21st century have.

A big question remains about this trend of declining happiness among women: Why? The study does not attempt to answer that question. Is it because women struggle to find work-life balance? Is it because the glass ceiling needs to be broken once and for all? Is it because women spend too much time caring about others and don’t have enough time for themselves? We need to know why the happiness of women is declining so we can work on reversing this disturbing trend.

To begin discovering more about the happiness of women, I put together a very short survey that I would really appreciate you taking the time to answer. Your answers are anonymous to protect your privacy. The purpose of this is to share the results with you so we can begin an important discussion about what makes women unhappy and what we can do about it.

What is your opinion on the study’s findings and people’s reactions? Are you surprised by the declining happiness of women? Do you think there is something we can do about it?

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About Natalie MacNeil

Natalie MacNeil is a media producer and consultant, specializing in online media and marketing. She is a passionate entrepreneur and founder of She Takes on the World. For more information, visit NatalieMacNeil.com.

4 Comments

  • Rachel
    October 19, 2009 | Permalink |

    You must watch a different Mad Men to me. Peggy, Betty and Joan strike me as bored, frustrated and fairly unhappy, each in their different ways, in their different roles, and for different reasons.

  • Natalie MacNeil
    October 19, 2009 | Permalink |

    Rachel, we definitely watch the same Mad Men. I think you misunderstood. I said that from the show I would say women are much happier now than they were at that time. I feel sorry for them, especially Peggy because of the limitations placed on her.

  • October 19, 2009 | Permalink |

    I watch Mad Men and feel the severe ennui that afflict women who are encouraged to live their lives through others.  You can see why women would go crazy.

    Women (and some men) have not fought for equality because they thought they would achieve happiness.  To have rights in the workplace does not mean that you have the right to unlimited happiness.  Don Draper had power at Sterling Cooper.  Is he a happy man?

    We fought for the right to experience the full spectrum of emotions through colorful life experiences.  Unhappiness is included.
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  • October 19, 2009 | Permalink |

    Lydia that’s a very good point. Well said.

    As a woman, I’m happy (and grateful) that other women fought so that I could have opportunities that women back then didn’t have. I’m happy that I have the right to experience the full spectrum of emotions that come through all of life’s experiences even though that means being unhappy sometimes.

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